Monday Musings

Truth is....

Truth is....I'm beat!  Getting adjusted to the sleep cycles of an infant is not something that is easily done!

Truth is....babies don't mind coughing and sneezing right in your face.  I've got the cold that Youngest has had for a few days.

Truth is.....I wish I could just succumb to the cold for a couple of days, crawling into the darkness of my bedroom and the comfort of my bed.  Unfortunately, Mom doesn't ever get the luxury of being sick.

Truth is....I LOVE having 3 boys!  They are all 3 so different. 

Truth is....it continues to amaze me how much your heart grows with love for another baby!  It seems like at some point there would be a limit.  Alas, there is not!

Truth is.....the worry grows too!

Truth is....as much as I would LOVE to stay home with #3, be home when Oldest and Middle get on and off the bus, that is probably not the best idea. 

Truth is....I really hate to say that out loud, because it makes me so sad to think about.

Truth is.....*sigh*  *sniff*

Truth is....Oldest only has a couple of weeks of his basketball season left. He's turning into such a good player.  His games are so fun to watch, I'm going to be a little sad to see the season end.

Truth is....I won't miss rushing home from work to take him to his 6:30 practice on Wednesday and Friday evenings.  Whew!

Truth is....we're gearing up to host a Super Bowl Pajama Party!

Truth is....I can hardly wait.  I really love being around good people.  Surrounding yourself with good people brings out the good in you. 

Truth is....I'm glad I have a week to clean and tidy the house! 

Truth is....why do I worry over what the house looks like?  There will be 7 little boys (ages 11 and under) running wild.  When it's all said and done, the house will be a mess....but the boys will have had fun and that's what matters!

Truth is....when I visit friends I couldn't care less how their homes look, I'm there to see THEM!  Why do I think they will judge me on the appearance of mine?  They won't.....it's just that's how things live in my head.

Truth is....I feel better now that I've unloaded some of my stress!

Wednesday Ramblings

Once again, my head is so full of things I'm thinking about that stuff is bumping into each other and I'm having a hard time concentrating.  I continue to think that if I just write this stuff down somewhere, it will help me focus a bit more!  Here goes......

• This weekend is Easter.  WHAT?  How in the world did Easter sneak up on us so fast? 
• Somehow or another Hubby and I ended up hosting Easter dinner for his extended family.  I really don't mind, but I hadn't planned on it either!
• This weekend both of my boys and Hubby all have eye doctor appointments.  I know it's something we should do at least annually, but I honestly never think about it. 
• With Youngest starting Kindergarten this Fall, we HAVE to think about the eye exam.  It's one of the requirements for enrollment.
• Youngest is convinced that he will be coming home with glasses. It doesn't matter that he has no vision problems at all.
• The following weekend we will be celebrating Hubby's birthday.  We're going on a family camping trip in our new camper!  These camping birthday's are fast becoming a regular thing with us!
• The 'family' may not be joining us on the actual camping trip, but will likely come out and help us celebrate the birthday. That means I'll be cooking at a campground for about 20 people. That takes a little bit of planning.
• We are expecting our third baby this Fall!!
• Our world is getting ready for a big shift!  We've been able to hop in the car and go for a few years now, babies require a little bit more planning.
• We thought we were done after Youngest so we got rid of EVERYTHING we had for our babies.  Hubby came up with the idea of 'maybe just one more' and here we are!
• Baby stuff is really expensive.  I'm praying that my friends and family love us enough to help us out with a shower or two!
• I'd forgotten how much I get up during the night while I'm pregnant.  I've been exhausted for weeks!  Something really has to give with the sleep schedule.
• I'm sitting on pins and needles waiting to find out if this baby is a boy or a girl.  Of course, I have my theories on what we're having, it will just be really nice to know for sure.
• I have to wait several more weeks before I can know for sure the gender of this baby.  ARGH!!
• We are planning our summer vacation.  It really cannot come soon enough.  Hubby and I are both pretty stressed out at work, we need a break from reality for a few days!

Whew!  That was a lot.  It feels good to get some of it off of my chest!

Art

Both of my children are really coming along in their artwork.  Oldest has a bit more practice so he has a little more skill.  He isn't quite as understanding as I'd like him to be when Youngest's picture needs a little explaining for us to 'see' what he has created.  They are both great artists in their own right. 

Oldest's art teacher uploads his school creations to a website, we don't have that luxury with Youngest yet since he's in preschool, but rest assured we love his art too! 

Here are a few of my favorite pieces that Oldest has done since he started school, they are in no particular order, they aren't even in order of what grade he was in when he created the pieces. 

Keep in mind, he is instructed on what to draw, he does have creative license to make the picture as he wishes.  Most of his 'school art' he's not fond of because he prefers sketching to painting. 

I had this piece made into a t-shirt...

Spooky Halloween

Don't those little cardinals look cold??

This piece too has been made into a t-shirt...

I had luggage tags made from his piece...

This is his latest work...

His 4th grade teacher told us in his conference a couple of weeks ago that he has such a great artist talent.  He draws and paints very well, he is also a great writer.  He has the ability to let the reader hear his voice.  This child LOVES to read and I think that really helps feed his creative side!  I can hardly wait to see what profession he will choose when he gets older...hopefully something he loves!

Ghouls and Ghosts and Goblins....oh my!

A couple of weeks ago Oldest had some money burning a whole in his pocket from his birthday party.  He can't hang onto two pennies for any more than a minute, how on earth could we expect him to hold an entire $20 bill?

As expected we ended up at the local Walmart to find something to blow his money on that he couldn't live without!

While Oldest and Hubby were searching for anything in the store that cost $20 the bestest, most coolest thing ever, Youngest and I were strolling around the Halloween department.  Considering Youngest's fear of witches, Halloween is definitely not his best time of year.  While we're looking at the various costumes and decorations, I try my best to steer him away from anything witch-like. 

I turn my back for a moment and he's got a mask on and a tiny witches hat.  I do not generally allow my kids to try on masks in the store mainly because of the gross germ factor. Who on earth knows who's been wearing that before??  That said, I couldn't resist snapping a picture. One picture lead to him trying on ten masks while wearing the tiny hat with ALL of them!  Of course, I had to take a picture of him in all of them, he had me in stitches.  I'm sure the people in the Walmart must have thought we were crazy people! 

Frankenstein....which by the way is what Youngest will be for Halloween this year...although he's elected to be a much less scary version of Franky.

Wolf-man

Scary....

Boo!

Happy Halloween everyone!

Truth is Thursday

Truth is.....my family is very blessed.  Hubby and I work very hard for what we have and the good lord has provided us a cornucopia of blessings.

Truth is.....my kids want for very little, but they are getting a BIG sense of entitlement!  I want, I want, I want.  YIKES!

Truth is....I've been looking for a way for my family to give back a little, especially as we're approaching the holiday season.

Truth is....our church couldn't have had better timing in offering Christmas Child!  This is a program that brings Christmas gifts to less fortunate children.  You simply grab one of the shoebox sized boxes that are provided and the directions are inside.  We grabbed two (one for each of our boys)!

Truth is....reading over some of the recommendations for these children's gifts made me feel very sad and selfish.  They were asking for things like personal hygiene products, school supplies and maybe a couple of toys.  Keeping in mind that it all has to fit in the box.

Truth is....you can select the age and gender of the child that you're buying for.  Is anyone surprised that both of my boys opted to buy for boys that were their same ages? 

Truth is....we took the boys shopping last night to fill their boxes.  What better way for them to learn that not all children are as fortunate as they are.

Truth is....I shopped and my boys played.  Youngest is still young enough that he's still very ego-centric.  Each time I asked him if 'this' was something he'd like to give the other child he responded by saying 'no, that wouldn't be fair because I don't have that'.  Whatever 'this' was, went immediately into the cart for the other child.  Oldest was doing his best to find a notebook so he can start a journal. Balls were being thrown, armor was dawned, swords were being used....it was insanity!

Truth is....Hubby actually picked up one of the gifts from the cart and said $5 for Uno?  Yes, that really happened.  Yes, Uno stayed in the cart for both of the children we were buying for.  Eyeballs rolling at that comment for sure!

Truth is....I was a little disappointed that the boys didn't take more of an interest in what was being purchased.  After we were done and I showed them what we bought for each of their boxes they both seemed to genuinely approve.

Truth is....while it may not have been what I envisioned, I think it was a positive first step towards teaching the boys a little humility and selflessness.

Truth is....I'd like to thank one of my favorite bloggers, Julia at Surviving Boys, for hosting Truth is Thursday....very cathartic!

Ghosting....

A couple of years ago we started a tradition with my boys, Ghosting (or booing...it's the same thing).  In all honesty, my sister started it with her family and we hopped on the band wagon.  I know, I know, lots of families do the same thing, but I didn't know about it until my sister started it, so there!

Each year around the first of October, we buy various types of individually wrapped candy (you could also do cookies), shove them in a Halloween baggie; attach a picture of a ghost and a poem of instructions of what to do next. 

Once dark is upon us, we become ghosts!  We sneak up to our ghostees homes, place the candy bag on their doorstep, ring the bell (or bang on the door) and then get the heck out of there before we're caught! 

Last night we ghosted ten families (one of them was my sister and her family), the other nine families live in our neighborhood.  The boys absolutely love being little ghosts!  They get to be sneaky and see how fast they can run and get out of sight so they aren't discovered by our neighbors.  They were almost caught once last night but they made it out of sight by the skin of their teeth!

Once the ghostee has opened their door and received their bag of goodies; if they decide to join in the ghosting fun there are specific instructions to follow.  The instructions say to tape the ghost that they received to the front door, and then ghost two of their neighbors; then they get to become a ghost! 

It's a lot of fun to watch the pictures of little ghosts popping up on doors and windows all over the neighborhood.  I hope you'll join in the fun!  Happy Ghosting!!

Rambling Wednesday...

Today I have so much on my mind, that maybe if I write it all down, it will help clear my head!

• Our dentist appointments went well yesterday.  No cavities for anyone...hooray!
• The dentist confirmed that Youngest has THREE loose teeth.  Big smiling eyes when he heard that news!  Look out tooth fairy!
• Several weeks ago our pastor mentioned that one of his favorite things is a Dr. Pepper slurpee!  Where has this been all my life and why am I not drinking one right now?
• We're having a lot of trouble with Oldest and his ability to tell the truth on even the most trivial questions.
• There's been a lot of yelling and teeth gnashing over lying and helping around the house.
• I feel like I'm failing my children.  
• I'm less than happy with my work life as well.  I feel like our leadership team is trying to make the role much harder than what it is.
• My work hours recently changed.  I go in about 30 minutes later (not late enough to actually help hubby with ANYTHING in the morning) and I get home about 45 minutes later than I used to.
• Changing work hours means a change all the way around for the family.  We have less time together in the evenings and we're rushing to get things done.
• When do we have time to just stop and breathe?
• Our house is almost always a disaster zone!  We need a better plan to keep it clean.
• Hubby and I are celebrating our 13 year wedding anniversary next Monday!  WOWZA! 
• Hubby is working all weekend and working late through the first part of next week.  I don't see any anniversary celebrating this year. With busy work life and two kiddos, that's bound to happen!
• The following weekend is Oldest's birthday.  We're going camping and two of his friends are tagging along.  FUN!
• The weather in the Midwest is so unpredictable, we're praying for a dry weekend!  It hasn't rained since my birthday weekend when we took the family camping.  We're due for more rain. 
• I've been eating my stress lately.  Not only is it not helping my stress, it's not helping my waistline either!
• I really believe that God doesn't give us more than we can handle.  Sometimes I believe he may have a little to much faith in me to handle all he's given me!